Jose "Benny" Valdez

Jose "Benny" Valdez, a cherished family man, passed away on Friday, March 21, 2025, at the age of 86.

He was preceded in death by his parents Rosalio and Onofre Valdez; sisters: Margaret Baca, Alice Tenorio, Gloria Ann Valdez, Mary Ann Ealy, and brother Chris Valdez.

Benny is survived by his wife of 63 years Evelyn Valdez; children: Benny Valdez, Jr., Monica Tanny (Greg), Lynda Parra (Art Simoni); brothers: Rosalio Valdez, Jr., Bobby Valdez (Patsy), Tony Valdez (Hilda); sister Patricia Diggins (Frank); grandchildren: Michael Tanny (Alyssa), Matthew Valdez (Erika), Alexandra Simoni, Olivia Miller (Patrick), Luna Simoni, Chris Valdez (Liza), Ava Parra, Whylie Yazzie, Reina Valdez; great-grandchildren: Aubree Tanny, Logan Tanny, Brynlee Tanny, Colton Tanny, Eli Valdez, Cruz Valdez.

Born on April 27, 1938, in the small town of Cuba, New Mexico, Benny spent his life cultivating a legacy of love, wisdom, and unwavering support for his loved ones.

After completing high school, Benny embarked on a career as a cement finisher before answering the call of duty by joining the United States Army. His service to his country saw him stationed in Chinon, France, where he proudly served his nation. Upon returning to civilian life, Benny began his long tenure with Spartan Technologies, where he dedicated 38 years of his life, contributing to the company's growth and success with his unwavering work ethic.

Benny's commitment to his community was evident through his 20 years of involvement with St. Vincent de Paul, where he contributed his time and resources to those in need, always with a humble heart and a helping hand.

A man of varied interests, Benny found joy in the simple pleasures of life. He was a regular patron of the casinos in New Mexico, where he enjoyed the vibrant atmosphere and the thrill of the game. His passion for sports was all-encompassing; he was an avid fan of the Raiders and the Dodgers, never missing a game and always ready to engage in lively discussions about the latest play or score.

More than just a spectator, Benny was also a coach, dedicating countless hours to mentoring his children and grandchildren in various sports. He was their biggest fan, always there on the sidelines, offering encouragement and celebrating every victory with the same enthusiasm and pride.

Benny's love for his family was his crowning achievement. He was a proud husband, father, and grandfather, and his role as a provider was one he took seriously and performed with excellence. His wife Evelyn's cooking was the way to his heart, with beans and chile being his favorite dish, a testament to his appreciation for the comforts of home and the love that went into every meal.

Those who knew Benny would describe him as a loving and wise man. His advice was sought after, and his presence was a source of comfort and stability. He was a handyman in the truest sense, always ready to fix a broken toy for a grandchild or tackle a home repair with skill and patience.

Benny's humility was one of his most endearing qualities. He never sought recognition for his deeds, content in the knowledge that he had made a difference in the lives of those around him. His legacy is one of steadfast love, unwavering support, and the quiet strength that defines the backbone of a family.

As we bid farewell to Jose "Benny" Valdez, we remember a man whose life was a tapestry of dedication, joy, and love. His memory will be cherished, and his influence will continue to be felt by all who were fortunate enough to know him. Benny's journey through life was a testament to the power of a kind heart and a generous spirit, and he will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who were touched by his remarkable life.

Benny’s Life Celebration will begin with a Rosary to be recited on Sunday, March 30, 2025, at 6:00pm at Our Lady of the Most Holy Rosary Catholic Church located at 5415 Fortuna Rd. NW, 87105. Mass will be held on Monday, March 31, 2025, at 9:00am also at Our Lady of the Most Holy Rosary Catholic Church. Benny will be laid to rest following the Mass at Mount Calvary Cemetery located at 1900 Edith Blvd NE, 87102.